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Hospice in memory care homes: who does what

A resident of a memory care home can receive hospice without moving. The memory care staff keep doing the daily care: meals, bathing, supervision and keeping the resident safe. The hospice team adds a nurse, a hospice aide, a social worker, a chaplain if wanted, comfort medicines and equipment, and a nurse by phone at any hour. The family keeps paying the home's monthly fee, because Medicare does not pay room and board.

Medically reviewed by Oscar Chien, MD, Medical Director, November 13, 2026

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On this page (12 sections)
  1. What is a memory care home in California?
  2. Can a resident stay in memory care through the end of life?
  3. Who does what when a memory care resident is on hospice?
  4. What changes day to day when hospice starts?
  5. How does hospice help with behavior changes?
  6. What about falls?
  7. What if the resident stops eating?
  8. When do you call the hospice nurse, and when 911?
  9. Who pays for memory care on hospice?
  10. When is someone with dementia ready for hospice?
  11. Memory care homes in the Inland Empire
  12. Common questions

What is a memory care home in California?

Memory care is a residential care facility for the elderly (RCFE) that cares for people with dementia. It is licensed by the California Department of Social Services, not by the health department, and it is a non-medical home. Under state rules (22 CCR 87705), its staff must be trained in dementia care, exterior doors and gates that a resident could wander through must be monitored, and locked or delayed exits need state approval and the resident's or conservator's consent.

A home that advertises dementia care must have a written description of its dementia program and give it to you if you ask (22 CCR 87706). Ask for it before hospice starts. It tells you how the home handles changes in a resident's condition.

Can a resident stay in memory care through the end of life?

Often, yes. For a resident on hospice to stay as care needs grow, the home needs a hospice care waiver from the state (Health and Safety Code 1569.73) and must be able to meet the resident's needs with the hospice's help. The waiver, the written plan between the home and the hospice, and the questions to ask are explained on hospice in assisted living. Ask the administrator early, before a crisis.

The resident or their representative chooses the hospice, not the home. A home can say which hospices it has worked with; it should not require one.

Who does what when a memory care resident is on hospice?

The home keeps doing what it did before. The hospice adds clinical care, comfort medicines, equipment and family support. Neither replaces the other.

What the memory care home does and what the hospice team does for a resident with dementia on hospice
TaskThe memory care homeThe hospice team
Daily careMeals, bathing, dressing, toileting and supervision, day and night, as in the admission agreementHospice aide visits for bathing and personal care when part of the plan of care. These add to the home's care.
MedicinesHelps with medicines the way RCFE rules allow, and tells the hospice when an as-needed dose was givenOrders and supplies medicines related to the terminal illness, reviews every medicine with the doctor, and teaches staff how comfort medicines are used
Behavior changesNotices changes, uses calming routines, and calls the hospice nurseLooks for a cause, adjusts the plan and medicines, and teaches staff what to try
FallsResponds, keeps the resident still if hurt, and calls the hospice nurseAssesses, treats pain, and arranges an X-ray or hospital visit if that is right for the resident
Eating and drinkingServes meals and helps with feedingAdvises on food textures, positioning and careful hand feeding
EquipmentMakes room for it and uses it as shownProvides a hospital bed, pressure-relieving mattress, wheelchair and supplies when part of the plan of care
The familyUpdates the family on daily lifeSocial work, chaplain support if wanted, and grief support for 13 months after a death

We care for people wherever they call home, including nursing facilities, RCFEs and board-and-care homes, in coordination with facility staff.

What changes day to day when hospice starts?

  • A hospice nurse visits on a schedule set in the plan of care, and more often when needed. Staff and family can call the hospice nurse at any hour.
  • A hospice aide may come for bathing and personal care on set days.
  • Comfort medicines for the terminal illness are delivered to the home, often with a small supply for sudden symptoms. See the comfort kit.
  • The home's staff call the hospice nurse, not 911, for most changes, as agreed in the plan.
  • Medicines that no longer help with comfort may be stopped, after the hospice doctor, the resident's doctor and the family discuss it.
  • The resident's daily routine, room and familiar staff stay the same.

How does hospice help with behavior changes?

In late dementia, new agitation, calling out, resisting care or sleeping all day often has a cause the person cannot name: pain, constipation, a full bladder, an infection, hunger, thirst, or too much noise. The hospice nurse looks for that cause first and treats it.

Calm, familiar routines, a quiet room, the same caregivers and simple choices come first. When distress continues, the hospice doctor may order a medicine for comfort, at the lowest dose that works, and the nurse checks how it is working. Read restlessness near the end of life.

What about falls?

Falls are common in late dementia, because walking and balance fail before the person understands they need help. Hospice cannot prevent every fall. The team can lower the risk with the home: a low bed, a mat beside the bed, a regular toileting schedule, good night lighting, and checking whether a medicine is adding to unsteadiness.

After a fall, staff should keep the resident comfortable and call the hospice nurse. The nurse assesses, treats pain, and decides with the family whether an X-ray or a hospital visit would help. Some homes have a policy to call 911 after every fall. Ask the home, before it happens, whether it will call the hospice nurse first when there is no emergency, and make sure the resident's POLST is in the chart.

What if the resident stops eating?

Eating less and losing weight are expected in late dementia. The body slows down and can no longer use food the way it did. Coughing at meals, holding food in the mouth or turning away from the spoon are signs that swallowing is getting harder.

The hospice team teaches careful hand feeding: small bites, soft or thickened foods, sitting upright, and stopping when the person shows they are done. The goal is comfort and enjoyment, not a calorie target. For feeding tubes in advanced dementia, read hospice care for dementia, and for the last days, when someone stops eating and drinking.

When do you call the hospice nurse, and when 911?

For anything about the illness, call the hospice nurse first, day or night. Call 911 for an emergency that has nothing to do with the illness, or when the resident has asked for emergency treatment and the hospice team knows.

Common situations for a memory care resident on hospice and who to call first
What is happeningCall first
New agitation, calling out, or resisting careThe hospice nurse
A fall, with or without an injuryThe hospice nurse
Pain, fever, or a change in breathingThe hospice nurse
Choking that clears, or coughing at mealsThe hospice nurse
Choking that does not clear, and the resident cannot breathe911, then the hospice nurse
A fire, or an injury to someone else911
An expected deathThe hospice nurse. There is no emergency.

If the hospice team has given you different instructions for this resident, follow them. Read hospice and the ER.

Who pays for memory care on hospice?

Medicare covers hospice care related to the terminal illness. Under Medicare, most people pay nothing for hospice care itself. There can be a copay of up to $5 per prescription for symptom medicines and 5% of the Medicare amount for inpatient respite care. Medicare does not pay room and board where you live.

So the memory care home's monthly fee stays the resident's or family's responsibility, paid from income, savings, long-term care insurance or family help. Hospice does not lower the fee. If the home charges by level of care, ask whether the level will change as needs grow. Regular Medi-Cal covers hospice but does not pay RCFE room and board. See Medi-Cal and hospice and paying for care.

When is someone with dementia ready for hospice?

Hospice is for people with a serious illness when a doctor certifies that life expectancy is six months or less if the illness runs its usual course. Our medical director and your doctor make that determination. A website cannot.

For the signs that it may be time to ask, read hospice care for dementia and when to call hospice for dementia. The stages are described in the last stages of dementia, and clinicians can see the FAST scale.

Memory care homes in the Inland Empire

Beta Hospice cares for residents of memory care homes, assisted living and board and care homes across San Bernardino and Riverside counties, and in Los Angeles, Orange and Ventura counties. Before choosing a home, look up its license, capacity and inspection reports in the state's care facility search (opens in a new tab). See our service area.

Common questions

Is hospice the same as memory care?

No. Memory care is a place to live. Hospice is a Medicare benefit that comes to wherever the person lives. A person can have both at once. See memory care and hospice compared.

Does hospice pay for memory care?

No. Hospice pays for the hospice care: the team's visits, and the medicines, equipment and supplies related to the terminal illness. The home's monthly fee stays with the resident or family.

Will Dad have to move to a nursing home?

Often not. Many residents stay in their memory care home through the end of life with hospice. A move may come up if the home has no hospice care waiver or cannot meet his needs. Ask the administrator early.

Does the hospice staff stay with the resident all day?

No. The hospice team visits, and the home's staff continue the daily care. During a symptom crisis, more intensive care can be provided when medically necessary.

Can we keep the same doctor?

Yes. The resident's own doctor can stay the attending doctor and works with the hospice doctor.

Who does the family call with a question?

Call the hospice for anything about symptoms, medicines or the plan of care, and the home for daily life, visits and fees. A hospice nurse answers the phone 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, and can visit when needed.

About this page

Written by
Beta Hospice care team
Last reviewed
November 13, 2026
Next review
May 12, 2027

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You do not have to decide alone.

Call (877) 258-7129 any time, or leave your number and someone from Beta's hospice team will call you. No decision is needed to call. Most families start with a question.

Only a hospice doctor, together with the person鈥檚 own doctor, can confirm hospice eligibility. A website cannot.

  • A nurse answers 24 hours a day, 7 days a week
  • You can stop hospice at any time
  • You have the right to choose your hospice

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